Beautiful people do not just happen. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross
In love there is no because, no reason, no explanation, no solutions. Anaïs Nin
The truly terrible thing is that everybody has their reasons. Jean Renoir
We are each other’s harvest; we are each other’s business; we are each other’s magnitude and bond. Gwendolyn Brooks
Leave people better than you found them. Marvin J. Ashton
The opposite pole to narcissism is objectivity; it is the faculty to see other people and things as they are, objectively, and to be able to separate this objective picture from a picture which is formed by one’s desires and fears. Erich Fromm
If you understood everything I said, you’d be me. Miles Davis
As soon as we start putting our thoughts into words and sentences everything gets distorted. Marcel Duchamp
If we are to love our neighbors, before doing anything else we must see our neighbors. Frederick Buechner
You do not really understand something unless you can explain it to your grandmother. Albert Einstein
I do not want the peace which passes understanding, I want the understanding which brings peace. Helen Keller
I sat with my anger long enough until she told me her real name was grief. C.S. Lewis
To most Christians, the Bible is like a software license. Nobody actually reads it. They just scroll to the bottom and click ‘I agree’. Bill Maher
In this week of many expressions of faith across many cultures, one of the few television commercials that has piqued my interest is the one suggesting that “Jesus Gets Us;” that the one whom at least some of us reverently acknowledge was, on this day, unceremoniously nailed to a cross, really understands who and what we are, notwithstanding perhaps also being a murdered victim of some profound misconceptions about who HE was, what he represented, the challenge of what he expected of us and what many of his followers in real time also expected of him.
If any of you identify in whatever way as Christians and want to find out more about this movement, you are encouraged to check out https://hegetsus.com/en. In fairness, there are things here to warrant a look, especially the reminder that Jesus seemed to reach out to those who experienced rejection from the society into which he was born as well as those facing great pain or need, people longing for a more dignified existence which the dominant social conventions of that time (as in our own) largely denied them.
So at one level, good for them. Good for not trying to turn Jesus’ ministry into version II of the vengeance-prone deity which so many of his contemporary followers seem to prefer, a deity whose central concern during the earliest expressions of the Jewish faith seemed to be more about punitively keeping people in line – especially with regard to matters of sexuality and procreation – than in keeping people on the path to a higher compassion and a deeper understanding of faith which incorporated but was not confined to the utterances of religious leadership.
I want to get to the issue of what it means to “get us,” but as way of confessional background it has been clear to me, or at least as clear as anything can be with regard to the “mysteries of faith,” that the main concern of Jesus’ ministry was less with “sinners” per se and more with the hypocrisy and self-referential nature of religious authorities. Time after time, together with his band of misfit disciples, Jesus reminded others that the ones who had strayed the furthest from the faith were the ones who deigned to represent it, those who largely failed to heal or inspire, those who were more concerned with keeping Rome out of “their” business than with attending to God’s business.
The scriptures – which I would remind you we only know as translation and also know primarily (and rightly in my view) as an aid to liturgy more than as a stand-alone book of hard rules – put the notion of “getting us” in a particular light. I don’t wish to force an interpretation on the reader, though I do agree with Bill Maher when he joked about the bible akin to “software license” which we merely scroll to the bottom to then give the most superfifical of assents. But it is also clear to me that there are at least two kinds of “getting” embedded in Gospel narratives which were intended for diverse communities in part by rearranging and then communicating different pieces of the oral and written testimony about Jesus available at that time.
This testimony surely gives some credence to the notion of “getting” from healing the apparently unhealable and feeding multitudes to acknowledging the humanity of criminals as he hung from the cross. That Jesus had made a ministry out of “getting” those whom the religious leadership of the time had largely forsaken, those who should never be brushed aside by houses of faith but should instead constitute the core of ministry for all who imagine ourselves to be following in his sacred footsteps.
But scripture equally chronicles a “getting” which is less about him “getting” us than the other side of the relationship. We must resist the temptation to brush aside from the bibilical narrative the degree to which few during the earthly sojourn of Jesus seemed to grasp what exactly was going on in that here-and-now and why it mattered. From the wedding at Cana to the capture of Jesus by soldiers prior to his crucifixion, even the people closest to Jesus (his mother, Peter, etc.) apparently missed large portions of the point of the mystery and ministry which he embodied.
I would humbly suggest that in this time when faith is becoming more aggressive and tribal than thoughtful or compassionate, we would do well to contemplate less on how Jesus “gets” us and more on whether we actually “get” Jesus, actually “get” who and what he prioritized, how he left people better than how he found them, where and how he dispensed both his compassion and his challenge, what he most fervently wished for those who flocked to hear his message but who surely were left to guess (and probably guessed erroneously) where this preacher and healer came from and what he had ultimately come to accomplish.
At the same time, we would do well to reflect on how this notion of “getting” has punctuated our contemporary discourse, suggesting relationships which seek to blend understanding of “where we’re coming from” with a degree of acceptance which largely assumes that change and growth are unlikely to occur and should hardly even be encouraged. Such “getting” may well be key to the maintenance of domestic harmony, but I’m not convinced that it is entirely what Jesus had in mind. Of course, as Miles Davis suggested above, if we understood everything Jesus said, we would be Jesus. That was not happening then. That is not happening now.
But what can happen is forging a closer synergy regarding the healing, caring, inspirational ministry which Jesus embodied and what he seemed to encourage in others – a ministry of our own defined by compassionate understanding and a stronger commitment to change and growth. We are complex beings to which the quotes above and thousands of others attest, and part of this complexity which has been uprooted through modern psychology and medicine has underscored the power of habit, our almost genetic stubbornness with regard to the sometimes unhelpful values and practices which tend to govern our lives – many of which we can ably rationalize or passionately defend but not sufficiently explain, even to ourselves.
Jesus surely “got” that some of those who sought his forgiveness would likely return to behaviors which prompted the search for forgiveness in the first place. But for others, the encounters were life-changing in the most complete sense of that term – a turning point for people whose aspirations had been buried under social convention, foreign occupation and religious authorities more concerned about their own piety than about the well-being of those who legitimately felt abandoned by them. For these, the testimony of Jesus, the touch of his garment, the meals he shared, the removal of afflictions which had turned sons and daughters into social outcasts, these were both manifestations of his ministry and invitations to grow and change, invitations as well to take up ministry ourselves, to “leave people better than we found them” in whatever ways we are able.
Jesus “gets” us enough to offer us pathways to companionship through this sometimes challenging life, but also “gets” the habits of our hearts, habits from which stem many outcomes including compassion, courage and caring but also violence and indifference, discrimination and self-deception. This Jesus who we claim to “get” but mostly don’t, this Jesus who constantly chided those nearest to him who understood his person and ministry largely through the lens of their own assumptions and expectations, this Jesus urges all — especially in these holy times — to see with greater clarity that we might truly become “each other’s harvest.”

