The two most important days in your life are the day you are born and the day you find out why. Mark Twain
Ask him to tell you about when he was born. What you get won’t be the truth: it will be a story. And nothing is more telling than a story. Diane Setterfield
My mother groaned, my father wept, into the dangerous world I leapt. William Blake
A birth-date is a reminder to celebrate the life as well as to update the life. Amit Kalantri
Lowly seeds are nourished in the earth, and then later the ravishing blooms appear. Moderata Fonte
The dream crossed twilight between birth and dying. T.S. Eliot
You were born with a broken heart. From the cracks of it love oozes out. Lidia Longorio
This weekend represents, for me at least, the annual ritual associated with the closely aligned birthdays of the United Nations (important) and my own (not particularly important).
This is not a “major” birthday for me, but it certainly is for the UN, marking 75 years of existence and generating strong and diverse assessments from those across a wide spectrum – those who stress the indispensability of the UN to global peace and progress and those who feel disheartened that an institution birthed in great promise and even love from the “broken heart” of a devastating world war could have squandered portions of that potential to the political machinations of its member states.
Indeed, these and other assessments are understandable. The UN often comes across very often as a stodgy and predictable bureaucracy with member states calling the shots and represented by diplomats whose main task, it sometimes seems, is to put the actions of their own countries in the best possible light, even when that light is dim at best. The UN is also brimming with NGOs, a number with large brands and budgets, that often pursue single-issue agendas and struggle endlessly over resolution language that governments are mostly free to accept or ignore as they see fit. Moreover, regarding the core issue on which most people assess the UN – peace and security – the UN’s Security Council is often mired in political in-fighting that impedes its ability to prevent or resolve fighting elsewhere.
On the other hand, the UN is the place where a wide array of pressing concerns are raised for potential resolution in multilateral spaces; indeed the only “spaces” where such resolution is often feasible. Even while national interests temper levels of global urgency that many of these issues demand, that so many pieces to a more peaceful and sustainable world find meaningful expression in UN conference rooms and (now) online forums is a tribute to the norm-building across borders and regions for which the UN seems uniquely suited, even if circumstances on the ground don’t always shift sufficiently in response.
Given this, it turned out to be quite a good birthday week for the UN, with some hopeful progress on peacebuilding highlighted in Central African Republic and Abyei and with a variety of important discussions taking place across all six General Assembly committees. Of particular interest to us were discussions focused on protecting free speech for academics and other citizens; on burdens to nations and communities arising from excessive external debt; on the status of minority groups scapegoated for the spread of COVID and its economic consequences; on preserving the dignity and rights of persons displaced from their homes due to climate change and armed violence; and on the struggle to create safer spaces for journalists and civil society advocates seeking to report on and put a stop to war and human rights abuses.
There was much more this week where this came from, underscoring the UN’s role as a place where key issues and themes – virtually all with implications for international peace and security — can get at least some of the policy attention they deserve and, in the most successful instances, actually shift circumstances in families and communities for the better.
Also in this 75th birthday week, the UN was able to announce two major breakthroughs, a cease fire agreement to pave the way for reconciliation and reconstruction in Libya and the entry into force of the Treaty on the Prohibition of Nuclear Weapons. Both admittedly have long hills to climb before full sovereignty and sustainable peace is obtained for Libya, and before the nuclear weapons powers (not signatories to the treaty) agree to renounce their weapons rather than modernize them. And yet both bring hope and even inspiration to the global table, and both are testament to the UN’s increasing determination and skill in mediation, to the larger policy role being exercised by small island and other small states on issues from climate to nuclear weapons, and to the determination of NGOs long-seeking a pathway out of dangerous impasse that has for too long kept these weapons at the core of national security doctrines.
And so it goes for the UN whose trajectory is not so much unlike our individual ones – potential achieved and denied; promises kept and abandoned; changes to habits of work welcomed and resisted, truths about what can and cannot be accomplished shared and hidden. For the UN there is much to celebrate but also to confess, to fix, certainly to “update.” In that “twilight” in which the UN continues to bask, we must acknowledge that while we might not have evolved so much as a species, the world has shifted dramatically since the UN’s birthing. And these shifts are now more rapid, more ominous, more complex. The UN’s relevance going forward is thus related to how we mange those shifts; how skillful, urgent and inclusive our responses to current threats and challenges can become; and how resolved we are to keep from “kicking the can down the road” for younger generations to deal with.
As individuals, as members of families and communities, as diplomats and policy wonks, we exist in our own twilight, between birth and death, between relevance and obscurity, between promise and fulfillment. And for people like me who tend to celebrate too little and ponder too much, the “mark” of our birth lies in continually ascertaining why we are here, what our purpose is, what we most need to do, share and inspire before our own lights are finally extinguished.
This is a specific kind of “updating” which can be as relevant to the institutions we work with as it is for ourselves. What is calling us to urgent action now? How do we ensure that all our skills, wisdom and experiences remain in play? Who do we need to reach – and reassure – that everything that can be done to uphold rights and improve circumstances is being done, that risks are willing to be taken to ensure that promises remain binding, that the most hopeful of our dreams are truly becoming incarnate, and that we refuse ourselves the luxury (even arrogance) of taking credit for resolving problems that didn’t need to occur in the first place?
In a world of threats such as climate change and biodiversity loss that are recognized but not yet remedied; of a spreading pandemic and the deaths, distrust and destroyed livelihoods it leaves in its wake; of political agreements and resolutions signed and then ploddingly implemented; of weapons banned but not renounced by those who hold them; none of us can say with certainty where this current iteration of human progress and folly is headed. What we can say with some certainty is that the future will require us to break free from some of the habits and their justifications that keep us in the mode of chasing after crises rather than minimizing risks, of hiding our light behind our bureaucracies and their mandates, of consulting the same voices and expertise over and over rather than considering fresher (if not necessarily better) alternatives.
As part of my own “updating,” I plan to spend some of this birthday and beyond looking intently for those “lowly seeds,” those voices and potentials largely unheeded, those stories of birth and inspiration largely ignored; those who actually have potential to generate the “ravishing blooms” which we have almost forgotten can exist at all, let alone exist for all. If the UN is to turn its own 75th birthday into conditions for many returns (and we genuinely root for that outcome), it must better honor its own capacity to nourish inclusion, not only with regard to the issues and crises to be resolved, but with regard to the full range of persons with their own “birth marks” who are able and eager to contribute.



