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Protection Expectations, A Memorial Day Reflection, Dr. Robert Zuber

25 May

Don’t let the rain drive you to the wrong shelter. Michael Bassey Johnson

The greatest protection any of us can have is faith in ourselves. Maya Angelou

Your silence will not protect you. Audre Lorde

If we want to embrace life, we also have to embrace chaos.  Susan Elizabeth Phillips

The best lightning rod for your protection is your own spine.  Ralph Waldo Emerson

 By allowing your mother to protect you, you gave her a gift. Kristin Cashore

So you don’t think three protection dogs, a room filled with weapons, a panic room and house that eats people isn’t just a little overkill? Christine Feehan

The measure of strength is how gently it can hold the fragile. Lawrence Nault

It’s easy to have ethics when what you love is not in danger. Mariana Enríquez

I realized protecting my children meant speaking truths I had buried for decades.  Denika Fercho

The phrase in the title of this post comes from the representative of Liechtenstein speaking at a Security Council debate on civilian protection.  Last week was “protection of civilians” week, an opportunity for the UN to examine generally mandated tasks to protect civilians endangered by armed conflict, but also to examine measures to, as was noted in a side event, “protect the protectors.” Liechtenstein has been among the most important UN members in calling attention to deficits in civilian protection but also in atrocity crime prevention and in upholding international law.

There are, indeed, expectations for protection, expectations of our military and police contingents, expectations of our UN peacekeeping forces and first responders, expectations of our political and community leaders, expectations of our families and neighbors, expectations that these and others are committed to a degree of protection from threats which so often seem to be beyond local capacity to respond, and which may indeed, at least in some instances, be beyond our capacity to grasp.

Like some of our readers, my relatives saw their military commitments largely as acts of protection of the places and people they loved.  They entered such service willingly but not vindictively, understanding the potential horrors of armed conflict while hoping and praying that horrors would end quickly and impact as few communities as possible.

While these sentiments may have been self-deluding in some measure, they derived from the idea that protection in itself had noble aspects, that threats were real and that, while all had a responsibility to protect, that burden was higher for some. They were prepared to respond to a crisis as it unfolds, to run towards danger rather than from it, to take on risks so that others could have their own risks reduced.  While protection is incumbent upon all who are capable of protecting, some in our dangerous world are certainly more fragile than others, as some are better equipped (in military hardware if not necessarily in temperament) to meet threats and challenges than others.

What emerged from the UN’s “protection of civilians” week was a tapestry defined by increasing state and non-state brutality, a willingness to disregard international law and the UN’s own Charter, and a liquidity crisis which has exacerbated the UN’s own reputational concerns. In the Security Council, delegation after delegation implored the Council to take their protective responsibilities more seriously and to do so in accordance with the values that led to the founding of the UN in the first instance.  These delegations understood (as did those of us witnessing the discussion) the degree to which our global economic and security systems have become partisan entities which benefit the few and increase pressures on the many.  They understood that the UN’s liquidity crisis impedes the ability of the UN system to properly fund protective operations, but that the need for protection is now more acute than in the past, not less.

Not all of the UN’s shrinking roster of peacekeeping operations have protection mandates.  But all have protection expectations of people living in countries where physical insecurity is as much a factor of daily life as economic, food and health insecurity.  These people need “blue helmets” to respond even as response is compromised by combinations of funding shortfalls, increasingly mistrustful host governments and troop contributing countries concerned about the ability of their troops to protect themselves in increasingly hostile contexts let alone to protect others.

During the Council debate, it was Panama who highlighted the irony that over a dozen civilians will have lost their lives “while we sit here and debate how to protect them.” Indeed, it is a failure to either manage or meet protection expectations which generates irony such as Panama’s, which in turn generates a sense that the UN’s protective architecture now falls well short of what is needed given our current laundry list of vulnerabilities.

And the gap is likely to increase as threats from a world increasingly indifferent to international law or climate change, a world in which the US and others are turning their backs on (and closing their wallets to)  multilateral solutions, a world (to cite the ICRC this week) which is  literally drowning in language used  to justify our own brutality, language which includes what Somalia referred to as the “exceptionalism” which justifies any and all IHL violations, language easier employed when we simply choose to stop seeing adversaries as human beings.

It is, indeed, harder to uphold ethics when the things you love are under threat. But threat is a common factor not a partisan one and those commonalities are becoming more severe not less (as Pakistan, Denmark and others noted last week) due to the disinformation and misinformation increasingly generated by artificial intelligence tools. Indeed, one of the major threats now to UN protection measures is the AI-generated lies which seek to pit communities against each other and undermine confidence in authorities and their protective responses.  We now see the results of that mistrust play out in communities worldwide, people who have given up on any assistance from outside and have turned that mistrust into emotional and physical barricades which, of course, cannot viably protect themselves and their loved ones from the crossfire of either weapons or weaponized “information.”

Thankfully, mistrust of authorities and their entities does not automatically remand into privatized “overkill.”  One of the takeaways of “protection of civilians” week is the role that communities can and must play in their own protection rather than simply huddling together in expectation of an external force which might never arrive, which might make matters worse, or which otherwise might be insufficient to task if it does arrive. 

As with many other issues, the discourse at UN headquarters struggles to properly acknowledge local expertise and capacity to address a range of threats which have defied multilateral solution. But the event on “protecting the protectors,” dominated by civil society voices, had no such struggle. Nonviolent Peace Force is perhaps the most notable of a global movement which invests in the community dimensions of protection, helping to build bonds of trust and active good neighborliness which can help create protective agency when and where external protective forces are delayed or absent.

While this approach does, as was noted at the session, transfer some risk from external protectors to frontline actors, it also acknowledges the skill that frontline actors have to protect themselves and the communities with which they are aligned.  At a time when the UN admits to “unprecedented” numbers of victims, often at the hands of state actors with full impunity, the UN’s ability to provide external protection to civilians on a wide scale is clearly compromised.  More and more, such peacekeepers are the targets of violence as they also seek to be a prompt and trusted response to violence.

So this is where we are now.  Peacekeepers facing threat from drones and other state and non-state weapons which also threaten those they seek to protect.  Government forces applying their own protective measures selectively, more consistent with political rather than humanitarian objectives. Peacekeepers lacking dependable funding and host country respect for status-of-forces agreements, including an increasing willingness to suspend adherence to international law for often poorly defined national interests. Communities also are facing increased protection-related risks without the skills or training in too many instances to build local trust and cultivate local protection expertise.

As with so much else in our world, we have done this to ourselves. We have created this moment with corruption embedded in virtually every economic transaction, with abuse normalized and agreements purely instrumentalized, with nations doing more or less what they please because there are fewer and fewer persons and institutions committed to diverting their more nefarious intentions. 

Until we can get these circumstances turned around, the need for protection remains acute – from families and neighbors, from properly trained soldiers, officers and agents, from people of many backgrounds who recognize the absolute imperative of meeting the protection expectation and doing so in ways which honor and uphold the law, not trample on it.

On this day and all days, may those who protect teach the rest of us how to choose or even build more effective shelters from the storms which so often surround us. And may they all survive the gauntlet they have so bravely chosen to traverse.

Bombs, Blockades and Bluster, a Mother’s Day Reflection, Dr. Robert Zuber

10 May

So how on earth can I bring a child into the world, knowing that such sorrow lies ahead, that it is such a large part of what it means to be human? I’m not sure. That’s my answer: I’m not sure.  Anne Lamott

Through the blur, I wondered if I was alone or if other parents felt the same way I did – that everything involving our children was painful in some way. Debra Ginsberg

She has changed in this way that motherhood changes you, so that you forget you ever had time for small things like despising the color pink. Barbara Kingsolver

Mothers are all slightly insane. J. D. Salinger

The best way to keep children at home is to make the home atmosphere pleasant and let the air out of the tires. Dorothy Parker

(24/7) once you sign on to be a mother, that’s the only shift they offer. Jodi Picoult

What fabrications they are, mothers. Scarecrows, wax dolls for us to stick pins into, crude diagrams. Margaret Atwood

Women, who struggle and suffer pain to ensure the continuation of the human race, make much tougher and more courageous soldiers than all those big-mouthed freedom-fighting heroes put together.  Anne Frank

Have you any idea how many children it takes to turn off one light in the kitchen? Three. It takes one to say “what light” and two more to say “I didn’t turn it on.” Erma Bombeck

Guilt to motherhood is like grapes to wine. Fay Weldon

Taking care of myself doesn’t mean ‘me first.’ It means ‘me, too.’  L.R. Knost

If they would all sleep all the time she wouldn’t mind being their mother. Kate Atkinson

I spent part of Thursday at the Post Office where I was on a line behind two men with Mother’s Day cards trying desperately to get some commitment from the postal workers that a 78-cent stamp would ensure delivery two days hence.   

Such a small and untimely investment wouldn’t ensure any such thing of course and you have to wonder about folks who felt that they had to do SOMETHING for Mother’s Day but didn’t have the resourcefulness to mail on time nor were they apparently inclined to resort to the fancy bouquets,  jeweled necklaces and other material indulgences which literally dominate the airwaves during this season.

The quotations above are intended to serve as a partial antidote to the excessive rituals which often punctuate this “holiday,” a day when “remembering” mom is incarnated, not enough in thoughtful questions and familial solidarity but in gifts which often show as much care and recognition as those tardy Mother’s Day card holders in the postal line.  Some of the quotations will be familiar.  Some offer humor and a bit of insight into the worry and uncertainty experienced by so many mothers I know, the knowledge that we have collectively made a world too dangerous for humans and other life forms, including the life forms better known as human children.  We have indulged and normalized behavior that need not be so and that we do not need to be so.  We have misused the inheritance of our children – grown and not – inheritance less about trust funds and more about a world which is running out of trust more generically, a world in which we don’t honor promises and then create conditions where promises can barely be met even if we were inclined to do so.

And yet, despite all, so many women, so many mothers in waiting have decided to bring new life into the world anyway.

It is this cloud of global uncertainty affecting motherhood, even influencing the decision to be a mother, in the first instance which I want to briefly explore here.

I have articles on my feed daily outlining some of the internal pressures on mothers – from partners inattentive to child rearing responsibilities and children addicted to screens and their messaging, to struggles with access to health care, child care and formal schooling which might actually prepare children to take on an increasingly challenging world.

At the same time, mothers face a climate increasingly hostile to women’s full and equal (as we say at the UN) participation in civic and political life.  The rollback of women’s rights and freedoms, including the disrespect of their professional skills and accomplishments, unimaginable threats to their political franchise and the apparent re-normalization of sexual predation, all this and more has a dramatic impact on mothers hoping  to raise respectful sons and empowered daughters. It is painful for some I know to watch as children struggle to adjust to a world which, in several significant aspects, we older folks dared to think we had left behind.

On top of this, as many mothers I know recognize, threats and challenges to children extend much further afield – to rising sea levels and biodiversity losses, to wars of choice and the inevitable displacements and deprivations they cause, to pandemics and other medical emergencies which we don’t seem to have any timely plan to recognize or address, to the pervasiveness of criminality on a massive scale which literally opens spaces for traffickers and corrupt officials as it closes spaces for those seeking to hold criminal elements to account.  

You who have indulged these posts over several years have also shared our window into an international order which seems to be fraying at the edges and which the growth of artificial intelligence is most likely to accelerate.  From climate change to nuclear weapons, the institutions where we do our work are increasingly unable to ensure that we will not eventually perish at our own foolish hands.  “Bombs, blockades and bluster” are terms which represent  too much of our current policy discourse and practice, speeches and actions much more likely, it seems, to turn up the heat rather than tone it down.  

For mothers, this is yet another dimension of a painfully recognized inability to shield children from the worst of adult follies.  Long before these posts were launched, I was part of a UNICEF Committee on the Rights of the Child, committed to “making the world fit for children.”  I have worked over the years alongside many women – many mothers – who have contributed  much of themselves towards this same end, a goal as essential to the continuation of our human family as it has been elusive. And it has remained very much elusive over the course of my adult life.

And yet, knowing what they know, feeling as they feel, worrying as they might, women  choose to have and raise children anyway.  They take a stand for lives that they can nurture if not always protect, extending the hope and potential that every child brought into this world embodies, at least in part. As Anne Frank noted above, amidst her own era of war and holocaust, there is courage at the center of this choice, the courage which we should honor this day and all days, the courage which binds so many mothers amidst the joys and travails of motherhood, even those for whom having children remains simply the only natural life path.

We see you and your courage. We see what you have chosen to do, have chosen to embrace, to bring children and the possibility they represent into this world.  We have no cards or jewels to offer, but you have our deep respect. Take a bow.